Author: Connie

Connie doesn’t believe in "fixing" people because she doesn’t think they are broken; they are simply navigating the messy, unpredictable seasons of being human. From her cozy home office—a space that feels more like a living room than an office—Connie serves as a steady anchor for those weathering life’s hardest transitions. Whether you are sixteen and struggling with identity or eighty and navigating the quiet shift of aging, Connie’s door is open. Her approach to recovery is broad and deeply personal, reaching far beyond traditional definitions. She guides people through the hollow ache of losing a loved one, the disorientation of a lost career, and the uphill climb of overcoming addiction. Each offering it's own relapse prevention planning. To Connie, a "relapse" or a setback is just a sign that the path got a little muddy—it’s never a reason to turn back. Eschewing cold, clinical labels, she offers "kitchen-table wisdom" paired with practical tools for resilience. In Connie’s community-focused practice, the goal isn't perfection; it’s finding the courage to stay present in your own life, no matter how much the landscape has changed.
  • Spirituality V Religion?

    I have added a Google Notice for the keyword “spirituality” to keep an eye on the various topics concerning this word. In the course of checking out the alerts I get once a week there is one title that showed more than any other: Spirituality versus Religion. There is no versus, comparing spirituality to religion…

  • New Resources Added

    I have answered a request to add three support resources to my Emergency & Recovery Directory. The services include a support group site with counseling services, a mental health resources filled with articles about living with depression and finding the best options for you, and a resource for eating disorders. Each site is filled with…

  • Mindfulness

    Step 1   Mindfulness can be frightening to one who has lived in shadows, hiding from self and the world. Hence the concept of step 1 to mindfulness. Tuning out happens when there is too much external stimuli, trauma from screaming, berating, physical assault, can create a shut down in our body’s system. It becomes…

  • Ruminations

    Self-healing is not about just healing your pains, grievances, traumas, or nightmares. Others have been involved in your life, the course of it, the events in which you were a part of. Grief, pain, the thing of nightmares is brought to those who share your journey. With time and willingness to heal these moments will…

  • Responsibility

    In Alcoholics Anonymous and Narcotics Anonymous meeting rooms there are small posters situated around the room with a variety of sayings, as there are for many other 12-step fellowships. Each statement is worded in a way to bring about an aha moment, hope that life will improve, or some other idea to the person who…

  • Clutter Blindness

    What is clutter blindness? A Google search relates clutter blindness to the term to hoarding. Hoarding is a phenomenon where a person holds on to things he or she believes is valuable in some way, it cannot get thrown out. Before long there is no room for the person to walk or live in his…

  • Who are you?

    Do you have an answer to this question? What comes to mind when you read this question? Well, let me tell you this about me, have not clue. I was asked once if I could describe me. Who I am… My description was met with derision. The comment following was simple yet profound. “You described…